Tongue Control: Necessity of the Spirit’s Reign

The tongue is a restless evil according to James, as the impact of its collateral damage cannot be underestimated. Without the restraining power of the Spirit, it can set the entire course of one’s life down a destructive path. Though the tongue is a relatively small part of our human constitution, it has the power to pull (like a current) direction of one’s life. James offers an excellent illustration of how small bits of food that are given to a horse influences obedience of the whole creature, “If we put bits into the mouth of horses so that they obey us, we guide their whole bodies as well” (v3). Surely if such a minute snack yields power over a large animal, cannot a man control such a small member of his body such as his tongue?

To be sure the reader understands his application, James offers one more outstanding illustration. He says, “Look at the ships also: though they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs” (v5). Again, just a large vessel (against the wind), carrying extensive cargo and a multitude of people trajectory is controlled by a small member within it called a “rudder”, cannot man control one of the smallest parts of his body? Again, the power the tongue yields cannot be underestimated. Though it is small member, it boast of great things. One Bible commentator expounds on James’ meaning here, “…It tells lies, slanders someone’s name, kindle’s hate, creates discord, incites lust, and, in brief, gives rise to numerous sins.” If it is not submitted to the power of the Spirit, it can be like a small fire that sets a whole forest ablaze! Remember, “…it is a restless evil, full of deadly poison” (v8).

James identifies the means by which our tongues can be subdued, “Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger…” (Jam 1:19). Exercising patience and wisdom in how we use our words in the midst of difficult conversations and bruised feelings offers the following benefits:

• Pausing to speak gives opportunity for the Spirit to be heard and provide instruction. It allows God space to reason with our hearts with his Holy Scriptures before we say something we regret. Remember, the usage of our words are like squeezing toothpaste out of its tube. Once it is out, you can’t put it back in.
• Pausing to speak allows the Spirit to maintain control and have an extinguishing effect on the stirring fire of our feelings. It has divine power to restrain the tongue by containing flames of our sinful hearts so that it cannot get loose and burn others, and even set our very selves on fire. Remember anger and rage functions like an accelerant (e.g., gasoline) to evil passions of the human heart.

Here is the truth we should pray and greatly consider in our spiritual growth: One of the Spirit’s primary functions and gift to us is self-control. Let us yield to its work, especially in what we think and say. Amen.

Blessings,

Dr. Jason S. Price, Th.D. 

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